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I Don’t Spend Time Curating My Instagram Account And That’s Okay

I’ve had something on my mind both as a blogger and someone who works at a creative agency and is engulfed in this schtuff all the time.

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I don’t spend time curating my personal Instagram account with perfect pictures. And that’s okay. And it should be okay. As a blogger sharing her life with the entire internet, I’ve thought about this a lot. This post goes way against the grain of actual blogging “advice”, but hear me out.

I totally get why people do spend time curating their accounts’ content, and I fully understand the benefits of doing so, and even preach it to clients – both from a marketing/branding standpoint, and a “people are naturally more attracted to quality pictures” standpoint. But, this is not directed at businesses, creatives, food bloggers, or professionals who truly use Instagram as an extension of their brand or for their portfolio.

I get it, I do, and it’s something I should bite the bullet and be doing if I really want to grow my following immensely.

But, perfectly curated Instagram accounts usually turn me off quicker than “average” accounts, especially if I’m looking to follow the person and not so much their brand. If your brand is your bread and butter, then that’s one thing, but Instagram was originally created to share moments as they happen. Not after they’ve been taken with your DSLR camera, edited, and re-uploaded. At least that’s how I’ve done it – maybe I’m missing some cool app.

Instagram is really good at making people’s lives look way more glamorous than they actually are. The most curated accounts surely can’t be real life. Instagram posts are just a tiny, small snippet of life, so you should always take them with a grain of salt.

I’m 99% sure no real person has a desk or workspace that looks like it came out of a Kate Spade catalog. I’m also pretty sure it took way longer than you’d like to admit to take that photo of your favorite inanimate objects in that homemade lightbox. You also probably don’t spend your days sitting in a trendy coffee shop, sipping on a beautiful chai tea latte, next to your MacBook Pro and a tiny succulent, while you jot down your feelings in a leather bound journal. Or maybe you do.

I don’t tend to contemplate whether or not a photo I post to Instagram is going to jive with the rest of my account. I probably should, as a blogger I know I should, and if I was using it for aesthetic reasons to promote my brand, I definitely would. But this mama ain’t got time for that. This mama barely has time for real life.

I fell in love with Instagram for its original genuineness, its spontaneity, and its life-as-it-happens approach. But somewhere along the way, like all social media, it has grown and evolved and fallen away from its intended purpose.

Instagram is now a platform more for creatives than the every-day photo taker. It’s more about branding, sharing a pristine image, and one that “looks good” next to other pretty images so that the entire grid looks like it is one cohesive statement. Consistency is the name of the game these days. Each “insta” is perfectly framed, perfectly laid out so that it will perfectly compliment the other five images a user sees when they visit an account. Each “insta” has a certain mood to it, a specific filter at the exact opacity, and the right shape to match all the others. Bonus points for using a third party app that adds white space around an image. (I know, I’ve done it!) It’s exhausting, really. The “science” that goes into a perfect Instagram account.

I think social media is definitely leaning more in the direction of promoting current, in-the-moment content, which is why Snapchat and Periscope are exploding. People are more interested in following people, not perfectly curated images, but lives they are interested in seeing, and being a part of. (Again, not talking about brands using Instragram as a mobile portfolio) We are nosey creatures by nature, and because we are a generation of instant gratification, we enjoy knowing what someone is doing RIGHT NOW. We enjoy feeling like we really know someone. And in the end, that’s why someone is going to follow you, or buy from you, or trust what you say. Because they feel like they are connected to you somehow. If you have to think for a second whether or not the picture you’re about to post is going to get enough likes, match your other pictures, or get the approval of some unknown Instagram rule-book, maybe you’re over-thinking it.

So, what will you see when you visit my Instagram account? Definitely not consistency. You’ll see my favorite and most special moments I couldn’t wait to share with friends and family near and far. Funny pictures of my dog that I knew my friends would enjoy laughing at. Sweet photos of my baby girl that I can’t help but brag on. Workouts I’m proud of and want to use to help encourage others. Random, delicious meals I want to remember to make again. Pictures I’ve shared on FB that I want my friends on Instagram to see as well. And the occasional sponsored post I am unashamedly sharing because diapers aren’t cheap, ya’ll. None of my Instagram images are perfect. They don’t “go together” and they aren’t edited the exact same way. But, they are real. And they are meaningful to me. I’m not stressed about it.

At the end of the day, everyone has a different agenda when it comes to social media. Don’t fall into the trap of playing the comparison game, because it is an ugly, ugly trap, and one that will steal all of your joy.

How do you use Instagram? What are your tricks? What is your favorite social media platform?

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    April 28, 2016 at 4:39 pm

    Thanks for this post! I’m so not artistic and don’t spend a lot of time setting up my photos for Instagram but sometimes feel pressure to have the perfect photo because of all the people who do!
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    Heather @ Polyglot Jot
    April 28, 2016 at 6:43 pm

    Love this! I agree with you–I dont plan when or what im going to be sharing and i dont really craft my photo prior. I can appreciate the artistry for those that do though! I’d love to make my smoothie bowls as beautiful as them haha:)
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    April 29, 2016 at 9:22 am

    This is a really great post! I am the same way… I just post pictures of my life when I feel like it. I don’t take 100 pictures and use the best one… I honestly just don’t have time. I love that you pointed out that sometimes instagram can make peoples’ lives look so much more glamorous than they really are. I think it is important to be authentic. PS. I also love posting pics of my pups!
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    Emily @ Perfection Isn't Happy
    April 29, 2016 at 9:44 am

    I don’t either…and that’s why I love your account! My profile should probably read, “real life with a baby,” because 90% of my account is baby pictures. I know you can probably relate haha!
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    Beverley @ Born to Sweat
    April 29, 2016 at 11:55 am

    i love this post!! it used to be something that stressed me out a lot, thinking about how the images would work with each other. so much so that i even contemplated buying an expensive app to see how it would look beforehand! but i much rather prefer to have a personal side to my instagram, mixed with professional/well lit photos.

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    Katie @ Live Half Full
    April 29, 2016 at 5:04 pm

    Amen! And I totally understand. Working in Marketing I know what works, but to be honest I don’t really want to put in the effort doing what I do all day for my blog. My blog is for me!
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      Sweet Miles
      May 1, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      Haha so true!! I feel like I totally don’t practice what I preach sometimes!

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    Ellen @ My Uncommon Everyday
    April 29, 2016 at 10:01 pm

    I really love this! I’ve honestly stressed a bit about my Instagram… and that’s silly. I do love posting pretty pictures I took too long to take, but I also like the extra dose of connection and familiarity that come with the occasional snapshot of “this is my real life”. And now I’m going to stop feeling guilty about that 🙂

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    Kristina @ Ms.Modify
    April 30, 2016 at 1:21 am

    I love this post and totally agree with you! Overly styled “perfect” posts are such a turn off to me. My favorite accounts are ones that show real life!
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      Sweet Miles
      May 1, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      For sure!

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    May 1, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    While as a food blogger I do believe one of the keys to growing an engaged following is stunning food photos on Instagram (since people eat with their eyes), I do agree with you on some points! I like to include photos from my recipes, and some ‘BTS’ photos to show people that I’m not a robot ha.
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      Sweet Miles
      May 1, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      Definitely – food bloggers totally don’t count, Instagram is basically like their portfolio!

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    Egypt @Meditations and Mangoes
    May 19, 2016 at 8:16 pm

    Thankyou so much for this fresh post. I share your sentiments. Perfectly laid out, planned and edited instagram pictures just put me right off. I want to see real-life like picures of people sharing beautiful things and moments that move them. I’ll sure checkout your instgaram feed. Cheers

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